Zovala zamkuwa zakhala zodziwika bwino zokongoletsa kunyumba, zomwe zimagwira ntchito ngati zitseko zomwe zimawonjezera kukongola komanso kutsogola pakhomo lililonse. Zodabwitsa zazing'ono zonyezimira izi sizongowonetsera chabe; ali ndi ntchito zambiri zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala ofunikira m'nyumba zogona komanso zamalonda. Komabe, zomwe zachitika posachedwa mdera lozungulira New York Marble Cemetery zapangitsa kuti mbiri ya mbale yamkuwa ikhale yoyipa kwambiri. Zikuoneka kuti chipilala chamkuwa chomwe chili pachipata chakutsogolo kwa malo odziwika bwinowa chasanduka nkhonya zaposachedwa kwambiri pagulu lakuba mopanda manyazi. Ndani ankadziwa kuti zipilala za pakhomo zingakhale zofunika kwambiri?

Tiyeni titenge kamphindi kuti tithokoze kusinthasintha kwa mbale yamkuwa. Kuyambira m'nyumba zazikulu mpaka m'nyumba zabwinobwino, zodabwitsa zachitsulo izi zimakhala ngati zitseko zomwe zimalengeza kupezeka kwanu mwachidwi. Atha kulembedwa dzina lanu, nambala yanyumba, kapena mawu achipongwe monga “Chenjerani ndi Galu” (ngakhale mulibe mwini). Kukongola kwa mbale zamkuwa kumagona pakutha kusakanikirana bwino ndi masitaelo osiyanasiyana omanga, kuyambira ku Victorian mpaka masiku ano. Iwo ali ngati mphutsi zapakhomo, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi malo awo pamene zikupitirizabe kuwala.

Koma tsoka, sizinthu zonse zonyezimira zomwe zili golidi-kapena mkuwa. Kubedwa kwaposachedwa kwa chipilala chamkuwa ku Manda a Marble ku New York kwadzutsa nsidze ndikuyambitsa kukambirana za kutalika komwe anthu angapite kukacheza pang'ono. Zili ngati kuti wina waganiza kuti chitseko chonyezimira chapakhomo ndicho chikhomo chachikulu kwambiri. Mwinamwake iwo ankaganiza kuti chikweza chipata chawo chakutsogolo kuchoka pa “meh” kukhala “chokongola.” Koma tiyeni tikhale enieni: ngati mukuba chitseko, mungafune kuganiziranso zimene mwasankha pamoyo wanu. Kupatula apo, pali njira zambiri zowonjezerera kukongola kunyumba kwanu popanda kuba pang'ono.

Tsopano, mwina mukudabwa chifukwa chake wina angafune kuba mbale yamkuwa poyamba. Kodi ndi kukopa kwa pamwamba? Lonjezo la ndalama zofulumira pamsika wakuda? Kapena mwina ndi nkhani chabe ya "kukhalira limodzi ndi a Jones" yasokonekera. Ziribe chifukwa chake, zikuwonekeratu kuti mbale zamkuwa zakhala chinthu chotentha kwambiri. Iwo salinso mapulateleti apakhomo panonso; ndi zizindikiro za udindo! Tangolingalirani kukambitsirana ku malo ogulitsira khofi kwanuko: “Kodi munamva za munthu amene anaba chikwangwani cha mkuwa kumanda?

Potengera zomwe zachitika posachedwa, ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuyika kwa mbale zamkuwa kupitilira zitseko. Atha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati zikwangwani zachikumbutso, zilembo zamaofesi, kapenanso ngati zokongoletsera m'minda. Mwayi ndi zopanda malire! Mutha kuzigwiritsa ntchito polemba zomera zanu—“Uyu si udzu, ndikulumbira!”—ndipo perekani dimba lanu kukhudza kalasi. Chowonadi ndichakuti, mbale zamkuwa ndizosunthika ndipo zimatha kugwira ntchito zambiri, koma siziyenera kukhala nkhani yakuba.

Nanga tingaphunzirepo chiyani pa nkhani yonyezimirayi? Choyamba, tiyeni tiyamikire kukongola ndi magwiridwe antchito a mbale zamkuwa ngati zitseko ndi kupitirira. Zimawonjezera khalidwe m'nyumba zathu ndipo zimakhala ngati chithunzi cha umunthu wathu. Komabe, tizikumbukiranso kuti kuba mbale yamkuwa si njira yochitira. M'malo mwake, bwanji osayika ndalama zanu? Mutha kupeza zosankha zambiri pa intaneti kapena m'sitolo yanu ya Hardware. Ndipo ndani akudziwa? Mutha kukhala ndi chitseko chokongola kwambiri pachitseko - popanda chiopsezo chothamangira ndi lamulo.

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Pomaliza, ngakhale kuyika kwa mbale zamkuwa ngati zitseko ndi nkhani yofunika kukondwerera, kuba kwaposachedwa ku Manda a Marble ku New York ndi nkhani yochenjeza. Tiyeni tisunge mbale zathu zamkuwa pamalo ake - pazitseko zathu, monyadira kuwonetsa mayina athu ndikuwonjezera kukongola kwa moyo wathu. Ndipo ngati mungayesedwe kusuntha cholemba chonyezimira, kumbukirani: sikuli koyenera. Kupatula apo, chinthu chokhacho chomwe chiyenera kubedwa ndi chowunikira, osati chikwangwani cha pakhomo la wina!